Sunday, May 22, 2011

Mereka Bilang "Dia Bukan yang Terbaik"

saya gatau harus mulai nulis darimana, kalian tau mati rasa ? ya mungkin saya mati rasa, saya mati rasa sama rasa sakit mati rasa sama rasa bahagia saya mati rasa untuk beberapa saat. Saya temukan kebahagiaan pada diriinya, saya bisa tertawa lepas, saya bisa menangis sejadi-jadinya, saya bisa marah, di dirinya saya temukan segalanya, dia mungkin bukan yang pertama, dan memang mungkin juga bukan yang terakhir, karena saya tidak mau berharap terlalu muluk-muluk, sesaat semua perasaan itu mati, karena 2 orang yang memang sangat berpengaruh di hidup saya, mereka menentang dengan alasan "dia bukan yang terbaik". 

saya mempertanyakan apakah yang terbaik selalu dipandang dari nilai materi ? apa barang mahal akan selalu bagus ? saya pun tidak munafik memang barang mahal akan lebih terjamin, tapi barang mahal ataupun tidak mereka won't last forever, nothing last forever, tapi berhubung mereka org yg sgt berpengaruh jadi saya tidak dapat berbuat apa2x, ibarat dulu pak habibie membiaarkan irian barat berpisah dengan Indonesia, gag ada yang bisa ngelakuin apa2x, walaupun hasilnya beliau mundur jadi presiden, kalau masalah saya gag akan bikin mereka jadi gag berpengaruh buat hidup saya which is impossible.

Saya bertanya sama dia, apa dia mau tetap sama ugly duck penuh masalah seperti saya ini atau bidadari-bidadari yang pasti akan ia dapatkan ketika lepas dari saya, tapi dia memilih tetap dengan ugly duck. Menurut saya dia tulus sama saya, karena dikasih pilihan enak pilih yang gag enak, saya kasihan sama dia, tapi saya bangga sama dia, karena hanya dia yang bisa buat saya begini, saya mungkin sudah tau akhirnya akan gimana, saya hanya mau menikmati proses yang ada, proses dimana saya merasa bahagia, 

jika akhirnya saya tidak akan bahagia dengan dia, saya berharap suatu saat saya dan dia dapat memperoleh kebahagiaan masing-masing.

SAYA SAYANG ANDA Y!

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Love Tips

hey blove, now i want to post all about LOVE TIPS, oke here we go!
1. There are 2 types of boys, First, caring but jealous, second, Ignorance but full of trust
which type is your boyfriend ? hahaha
2. DON'T COMPLAIN
Boys never really like a girl that complain all the time, for example oh no rain, oh the sun, i burn my skin, i cant stand it. hello ? God gives you rain you complain, God gives you sun shine you complain. haha
3. LOVE YOURSELF
Boys love a girl that accept the way who she us. Dont say im too fat, i'm too skinny #blah (oke this is hard to be done) haha
4 DON'T SHOW WEAKNESSES
Dont show that you are weak, you are a lady and you're strong, dont obey too much, if you show your weaknesses they will do as they like, they won't respect you
5. DON'T COMPARE
Dont try to compare your boy with your friends escpecially your EX. You dont want to be compared, do you ?
6. DON'T JUDGE
Think before you judge, don't judge he's cheating if you're not see it by yourself, or if there's not strong proof, check first then judge.
7. DONT BE A STALKER
Just ask him if you want to know something more about him, dont stalk girl, it just not cool. hha  but sometimes i'd do this if its very important haha atau kepepet wkwk
8. SAY THE TRUTH
Truth maybe hurt but trust me it's the best, because, if you start a lie, you will cover it up again with another lies, and it will be non-stop lies
9. SPEND YOUR TIME
Don't get too busy with your friends or with your game, usually it happens with boys, spend some times with her, dont ignore us, hmm you chase us like crazy in the very beginning once you got us, you're totally ignore us. boys give 100% to 0% but girls give 0%-100% if you knew what i meant
10. ACCEPT
Try to accept you're partner behaviour, if you can change it then its better, for boys please try to accept us as a girl that over reacted, sensitive, and moody. and Girls please accept them if their busy with his friends or his games, girl, boys will be boys. just trust them and wish that they won't break it
11. HUG
Hug is the best way to keep us stay and stick together :)
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