Bandung 27 Juli 2011
Kepada
Yang Tak Tersampaikan
Di Hatiku
Assalammualaikum Wr.Wb
Kepada yang tak tersampaikan,
Aku tidak akan sedih ketika kamu berhenti mencintaiku
Aku tidak akann sedih ketika kamu berhenti menginginkanku
Aku tidak akan sedih ketika kau berhenti membutuhkanku
Maka, aku tak akan menangis ketika kau meninggalkanku,
Kenapa? pasti km bertanya2x. Karena, karena aku ingin menjadi Andromeda, km tau Andromeda? Andromeda itu bintang yang paling terang, ketika langit gelap, Andromeda selalu muncul untuk menerangi dan memberi keindahan. Karena Andromeda itu menerangi, bukan Diterangi.
Kepada yang tak pernah tersampaikan apa kamu tau kenapa aku ingin jadi Andromeda? Karena aku ingin dikenang, aku ingin kelak nanti, akan ada sesuatu yang km,keluargaku, dan teman2xku ingat dariku,
Aku, Andromedamu.
Kepada yang tak pernah tersampaikan, aku ingin selalu jd Andromedamu yang menerangi hatimu, bukan orang yang kamu cintai, atau mencintaimu. Aku ingin menerangi hatimu dan jiwamu tanpa alasan. Aku memang dulu orang yang kau cintai, dan Kamu dulu memang orang yang ku cintai, tp sekarang aku berhenti jd org yg mencintaimu, aku hanya ingin selalu jadi Andromedamu.
Kepada yang tak pernah tersampaikan, I was your Andromeda, tapi percaya aku tetap selalu jadi Andromeda kamu. Kalau nantinya ada Andromeda lain, ketika aku pergi, jangan redupkan sinarku, simpan aku didalam toples bernama "Kenangan" bersama Apel dan Surat ku, dan percaya ketika malam aku akan selalu menyinari kamu.
Kepada yang tak tersampaikan, aku menulis ini bukan mengaharapkan cinta lagi darimu, aku menulis ini hanya sebagai ungkapan lain, dari ungkapan yang tak pernah aku ucapkan, aku menulis ini untuk menghilangkan dendam, aku ingin tenang tidak terbayang2xin amarah. Dan sekarang aku tenang untuk pergi
Sincerely, Andromeda!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Mereka Bilang "Dia Bukan yang Terbaik"
saya gatau harus mulai nulis darimana, kalian tau mati rasa ? ya mungkin saya mati rasa, saya mati rasa sama rasa sakit mati rasa sama rasa bahagia saya mati rasa untuk beberapa saat. Saya temukan kebahagiaan pada diriinya, saya bisa tertawa lepas, saya bisa menangis sejadi-jadinya, saya bisa marah, di dirinya saya temukan segalanya, dia mungkin bukan yang pertama, dan memang mungkin juga bukan yang terakhir, karena saya tidak mau berharap terlalu muluk-muluk, sesaat semua perasaan itu mati, karena 2 orang yang memang sangat berpengaruh di hidup saya, mereka menentang dengan alasan "dia bukan yang terbaik".
saya mempertanyakan apakah yang terbaik selalu dipandang dari nilai materi ? apa barang mahal akan selalu bagus ? saya pun tidak munafik memang barang mahal akan lebih terjamin, tapi barang mahal ataupun tidak mereka won't last forever, nothing last forever, tapi berhubung mereka org yg sgt berpengaruh jadi saya tidak dapat berbuat apa2x, ibarat dulu pak habibie membiaarkan irian barat berpisah dengan Indonesia, gag ada yang bisa ngelakuin apa2x, walaupun hasilnya beliau mundur jadi presiden, kalau masalah saya gag akan bikin mereka jadi gag berpengaruh buat hidup saya which is impossible.
Saya bertanya sama dia, apa dia mau tetap sama ugly duck penuh masalah seperti saya ini atau bidadari-bidadari yang pasti akan ia dapatkan ketika lepas dari saya, tapi dia memilih tetap dengan ugly duck. Menurut saya dia tulus sama saya, karena dikasih pilihan enak pilih yang gag enak, saya kasihan sama dia, tapi saya bangga sama dia, karena hanya dia yang bisa buat saya begini, saya mungkin sudah tau akhirnya akan gimana, saya hanya mau menikmati proses yang ada, proses dimana saya merasa bahagia,
jika akhirnya saya tidak akan bahagia dengan dia, saya berharap suatu saat saya dan dia dapat memperoleh kebahagiaan masing-masing.
SAYA SAYANG ANDA Y!
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Love Tips
hey blove, now i want to post all about LOVE TIPS, oke here we go!
1. There are 2 types of boys, First, caring but jealous, second, Ignorance but full of trustwhich type is your boyfriend ? hahaha
2. DON'T COMPLAIN
Boys never really like a girl that complain all the time, for example oh no rain, oh the sun, i burn my skin, i cant stand it. hello ? God gives you rain you complain, God gives you sun shine you complain. haha
3. LOVE YOURSELF
Boys love a girl that accept the way who she us. Dont say im too fat, i'm too skinny #blah (oke this is hard to be done) haha
4 DON'T SHOW WEAKNESSES
Dont show that you are weak, you are a lady and you're strong, dont obey too much, if you show your weaknesses they will do as they like, they won't respect you
5. DON'T COMPARE
Dont try to compare your boy with your friends escpecially your EX. You dont want to be compared, do you ?
6. DON'T JUDGE
Think before you judge, don't judge he's cheating if you're not see it by yourself, or if there's not strong proof, check first then judge.
7. DONT BE A STALKER
Just ask him if you want to know something more about him, dont stalk girl, it just not cool. hha but sometimes i'd do this if its very important haha atau kepepet wkwk
8. SAY THE TRUTH
Truth maybe hurt but trust me it's the best, because, if you start a lie, you will cover it up again with another lies, and it will be non-stop lies
9. SPEND YOUR TIME
Don't get too busy with your friends or with your game, usually it happens with boys, spend some times with her, dont ignore us, hmm you chase us like crazy in the very beginning once you got us, you're totally ignore us. boys give 100% to 0% but girls give 0%-100% if you knew what i meant
10. ACCEPT
Try to accept you're partner behaviour, if you can change it then its better, for boys please try to accept us as a girl that over reacted, sensitive, and moody. and Girls please accept them if their busy with his friends or his games, girl, boys will be boys. just trust them and wish that they won't break it
11. HUG
Hug is the best way to keep us stay and stick together :)
Friday, April 8, 2011
MOM
mom maybe just 3 words but its mean a lot in my life.
Mama saya bernama Rita Purnama Dewi, beliau lahir di Bandung 39 tahun yang lalu pada tanggal 05 Oktober 1971. Mama saya biasa dipanggil Dea, beliau suka bernyanyi beliau suka warna hijau, addicted sekali, beliau rela giving up everything for me :)
mama mungkin mama sering nganggep aku cuek, mungkin emang adanya aku gitu, tp deep down my heart i always worry about you, i'm scared when you sick, i'm scared to picture how would i live without you, but you know i never show every sensitive side of me to you, itsnot beacuse i dont care, but i care too much and im so scared so i pretend that im strong, cause i know you're weak you always worry about everything, so iwant to be strong daughter for you, who keep you stronger. Aku gag akan jadi anak yang kalo mama lagi nangis, aku bakalan ikutan nangis, aku gamau, aku bakalan jadi orang yang ngeledek mama gara2x mama nangis tujuan aku cuman buat mama ketawa, biar mama lupa sama masalah mama. Aku inget dulu mama sering sakit2xan dan aku cuek, aku minta maaf, aku akan berusaha untuk lebih peka ke mama, aku dulu setiap berantem sama mama gag pernah minta maaf, semakin dewasa aku sadar aku harus bisa ngalah, karena bagaimanapun orang tua, setidak sempurnanya orang tua, mereka tetap orang tua kamu, beliau tetap IBU kalian, ibu yang melahirkan, ibu yang membesarkan.
Mama saya orang supel dan pandai bergaul, beliau orang yang sangat pemberani, beliau tipe ibu yang bisa -dibilang jika dilihat dari luar sangat digemari oleh anak-anak lain, tapi sebenernya mama saya jika itu berhadapan dengan saya beliau berubah menjadi sosok yang bisa dibilang overprotective mungkin lebih-lebih dari overprotective jadi saya sering berontak karena hal itu.
mama, neng sayang mama, mama bukan superhero mama bukan artis mama bukan artis ltapi aku bangga sama mama, mama gapernah tau seberapa sering aku cerita ke temen2x tentang mama, mungkin kadang hal yang nyebelin cuman banyak juga hal2x yang aku ceritain ketemen aku ttg mama, itu karena aku selalau bangga sama mama, jangan pernah bilang aku lebih sayang ayah dari mama, karena sayang aku selalu sama buat kalian. i love you mom :)
Mama saya bernama Rita Purnama Dewi, beliau lahir di Bandung 39 tahun yang lalu pada tanggal 05 Oktober 1971. Mama saya biasa dipanggil Dea, beliau suka bernyanyi beliau suka warna hijau, addicted sekali, beliau rela giving up everything for me :)
mama mungkin mama sering nganggep aku cuek, mungkin emang adanya aku gitu, tp deep down my heart i always worry about you, i'm scared when you sick, i'm scared to picture how would i live without you, but you know i never show every sensitive side of me to you, itsnot beacuse i dont care, but i care too much and im so scared so i pretend that im strong, cause i know you're weak you always worry about everything, so iwant to be strong daughter for you, who keep you stronger. Aku gag akan jadi anak yang kalo mama lagi nangis, aku bakalan ikutan nangis, aku gamau, aku bakalan jadi orang yang ngeledek mama gara2x mama nangis tujuan aku cuman buat mama ketawa, biar mama lupa sama masalah mama. Aku inget dulu mama sering sakit2xan dan aku cuek, aku minta maaf, aku akan berusaha untuk lebih peka ke mama, aku dulu setiap berantem sama mama gag pernah minta maaf, semakin dewasa aku sadar aku harus bisa ngalah, karena bagaimanapun orang tua, setidak sempurnanya orang tua, mereka tetap orang tua kamu, beliau tetap IBU kalian, ibu yang melahirkan, ibu yang membesarkan.
Mama saya orang supel dan pandai bergaul, beliau orang yang sangat pemberani, beliau tipe ibu yang bisa -dibilang jika dilihat dari luar sangat digemari oleh anak-anak lain, tapi sebenernya mama saya jika itu berhadapan dengan saya beliau berubah menjadi sosok yang bisa dibilang overprotective mungkin lebih-lebih dari overprotective jadi saya sering berontak karena hal itu.
Mama saya seorang sosok yang saya idolakan, dia berani mengambil resiko, sedangkan saya, saya selalu menjadi orang yang takut akan konsekuensi-konsekuensi yang akan datang, saya penakut
Mama saya ketika berbicara dengan orang-orang bisa dibilang gaul, "gue-elo" bisa dibilang bahasa sehari2xnya dengan teman2xnya, tapi jika itu berkaitan dengan saya, beliau selalu memakai bahasa-bahasa kasih, sayang, neng, dan lainnya.
Mama saya tipe orang tua yang 'worry-an' overe worry i guess, dia selalau berlebihan dalam menanggapi sesuatu, dan kadang saya kesal sekali dengan sifatnya yang seperti ini. namun saya selalu memberikan nasihat2x kecil untuk bisa menenangkannya hahaha jadi kebalik yah . but so what itu mama saya
Mama tipe orang ketika jamannya sangat bebas, tp jika menyangkut saya kembali tidak ada kata bebas dihati maupun pikirannya mungkin diucapannya beliau bisa berbicara kebebasan.
ini bakalan banyak banget kalo disebutin semuanya hahha intinya I LOVE MY MOTHER no matter what!
saya sangat sedih ketika saya sakit saya harus berbohong kepada mama bahwa saya baik-baik saja, saya berbohong karena saya tidak mau membuat dia sedih, dia khawatir, mungkin saya jarang menghubungi mama, bhukan karena tidak mau, tapi saya takut akhirnya malah berantem, dan saya tidak mau melukai hati mama sayamama, neng sayang mama, mama bukan superhero mama bukan artis mama bukan artis ltapi aku bangga sama mama, mama gapernah tau seberapa sering aku cerita ke temen2x tentang mama, mungkin kadang hal yang nyebelin cuman banyak juga hal2x yang aku ceritain ketemen aku ttg mama, itu karena aku selalau bangga sama mama, jangan pernah bilang aku lebih sayang ayah dari mama, karena sayang aku selalu sama buat kalian. i love you mom :)
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| ini mama saya :) |
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
androgyny
im in love with andreaj pejic his beauty and his great appreciation in modeling world, and i just know that he's an androgyny, so now i will talk about androgyny.
Androgyny is a term—derived from the Greek words άνδρoς (andros, meaning man) and γυνή (gyné, meaning woman)—referring to the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. This may be as in fashion, sexual identity, or sexual lifestyle, or it may refer to biologically inter-sexed physicality, especially with regards to plant and human sexuality.
The Bem Sex Role Inventory is one of the most widely used gender measures and was constructed by the early leading proponent of androgyny, Sandra Bem (1977).[2] Based on their responses to the items in the Bem Sex-Role Inventory, individuals are classified as having one of four gender-role orientations: masculine, feminine, androgynous, or undifferentiated.
The androgynous individual is simply a female or male who has a high degree of both feminine (expressive) and masculine (instrumental) traits. A feminine individual is high on feminine (expressive) traits and low on masculine (instrumental) traits. A masculine individual is high on instrumental traits and low on expressive traits. An undifferentiated person is low on both feminine and masculine traits
One study found that masculine and androgynous individuals had higher expectations for being able to control the outcomes of their academic efforts than feminine or undifferentiated individuals
Medieval representation of an androgynous person from Nuremberg ChronicleAndrogynous traits are those that either have no gender value, or have some aspects generally attributed to the opposite gender. Physiological androgyny (compare intersex), which deals with physical traits, is distinct from behavioral androgyny which deals with personal and social anomalies in gender, and from psychological androgyny, which is a matter of gender identity.[citation needed]
To say that a culture or relationship is androgynous is to say that it lacks rigid gender roles and that the people involved display characteristics or partake in activities traditionally associated with the other gender. The term androgynous is often used to refer to a person whose look or build make determining their gender difficult but is generally not used as a synonym for actual intersexuality, transgender or two-spirit people. Occasionally, people who do not actually define themselves as androgynes adapt their physical appearance to look androgynous. This outward androgyny has been used as a fashion statement, and some of the milder forms (women wearing men's trousers/men wearing skirts, for example) are not perceived as transgendered behavior.
Lesbians who do not define themselves as butch or femme may identify with various other labels including androgynous or andro for short. A few other examples include lipstick lesbian, tomboy, and 'tom suay' which is Thai for 'beautiful butch'. Some lesbians reject gender performativity labels altogether and resent their imposition by others. Note that androgynous and butch are often considered equivalent definitions, though less so in the butch/femme scene.
The recently coined word genderqueer is often used to refer to androgynes, but the terms genderqueer and androgyne (or androgynous) are neither equivalent nor interchangeable. Genderqueer is not specific to androgynes, does not denote gender identity, and may refer to any person, cisgender or transgender, whose behavior falls outside conventional gender norms. Furthermore, genderqueer, by virtue of its linkage with queer culture, carries sociopolitical connotations that androgyne does not carry. For these reasons, some androgynes may find the label genderqueer inaccurate, inapplicable, or offensive.
An androgyne may be attracted to people of any sex or gender, though many identify as pansexual or asexual. Terms such as bisexual, heterosexual, and homosexual have less meaning for androgynes who do not identify as men or women to begin with. Infrequently the words gynephilia and androphilia are used, which refer to the gender of the person someone is attracted to, and do not imply any particular gender on the part of the person who is feeling the attraction.
An alternative to androgyny is gender-role transcendence, the view that when an individual's competence is at issue, it should be conceptualized on a personal basis rather than on the basis of masculinity, femininity, or androgyny.[4]
In agenderism the division of people into women and men, in the psychical sense, is erroneous and artificial.[5] It negates the biological sex (or lack thereof) as a carrier of specific features and tendencies of personality, and as a yardstick to determine human inside "I" (Ego).[6] In the category of transgenderism (literally, being "beyond gender identity") a person like agender can be included in a sense which rejects functioning under of any psycho-cultural gender.[7]
The rise of the metrosexual in the 2000s has also been described as a related phenomena associated with this trend, and traditional gender stereotypes have been challenged as well as reset in recent years dating back to the 1960s and the hippie movement and flower power. Artists in film like Leonardo DiCaprio sported the "skinny" look in the 1990s- a departure from traditional masculinity which resulted in a fad known as "Leo Mania",[10] and this came long after musical superstars like David Bowie, Boy George, Grace Jones, Prince, Marilyn Manson (appearing as an androgynous substance-addicted alien called Omēga in his album Mechanical Animals) and Annie Lennox as well as Michael Jackson challenged the norms in the 1970s and had elaborate cross gender wardrobes by the 1980s. The astronomical rise in popularity of "pretty" boybands in the late 1980s and 1990s like New Kids on the Block, Take That, the Backstreet Boys and 'N Sync "redefined masculinity"[11] and the trends flowed into other performance entertainment circles that included increasingly, sports stars in England's FA Premier League like David Beckham[12] or the Liverpool F.C Spice Boys[13] in the 1990s. These entertainers were known to have started trends of becoming increasingly conscious of their fashion and looks, and inadvertently raised trends as celebrities in the limelight that males were now increasingly interested in traditional female interests like clothing, fashion accessories, hairstyles, manicures, spa treatments and so on, which have seen the societal redefinition of traditional gender fashion norms, due to the popularity of these artistes with many people in the world today. These trends have arguably then gone on to reshape fashion, and clothing houses like Top Man, and designer labels have then seen an increase in sales in relevant "androgynous" merchandise.[14][15]
While the 1990s developed and fashion developed an affinity for unisex clothes and the rise of designers who favoured that look like Helmut Lang, Giorgio Armani and Pierre Cardin, the trends in fashion only hit the public mainstream in the 2000s, which saw men sporting longer hair, hairdyes, hair highlights, wearing jewellery, make up, visual kei, designer stubble, or the like, all of which been a significant mainstream trend of the 21st century, both in the western world, and in Asia.[16] Japanese and Korean cultures have been featuring the androgynous look as an ideal in society, as depicted in both K-pop, J-pop[17] and in Anime and Manga,[18] as well as the fashion industry[19] However, in 2010, reports state that the androgynous look in Europe and the West may be a trend on the decline
via (@wikipedia)
Andrej Pejic
isnt he great ? and he's been asked bye victoria's secret aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Androgyny is a term—derived from the Greek words άνδρoς (andros, meaning man) and γυνή (gyné, meaning woman)—referring to the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. This may be as in fashion, sexual identity, or sexual lifestyle, or it may refer to biologically inter-sexed physicality, especially with regards to plant and human sexuality.
Gender identity
For humans, an androgyne (pronounced /ˈændrədʒaɪn/, AN-drə-JYNE) in terms of gender identity, is a person who does not fit cleanly into the typical masculine and feminine gender roles of their society. They may also use the term ambigender to describe themselves. Many androgynes identify as being mentally "between" woman and man, or as entirely genderless. They may identify as non-gendered, genderneutral, agendered, between genders, intergendered, pangender or gender fluid.[citation needed]The Bem Sex Role InventoryThe Bem Sex Role Inventory is one of the most widely used gender measures and was constructed by the early leading proponent of androgyny, Sandra Bem (1977).[2] Based on their responses to the items in the Bem Sex-Role Inventory, individuals are classified as having one of four gender-role orientations: masculine, feminine, androgynous, or undifferentiated.
The androgynous individual is simply a female or male who has a high degree of both feminine (expressive) and masculine (instrumental) traits. A feminine individual is high on feminine (expressive) traits and low on masculine (instrumental) traits. A masculine individual is high on instrumental traits and low on expressive traits. An undifferentiated person is low on both feminine and masculine traits
Gender roles
According to Sandra Bem, androgynous men and women are more flexible and more mentally healthy than either masculine or feminine individuals; undifferentiated individuals are less competent.[2] To some degree though, context influences which gender role is most adaptive. In close relationships, a feminine or androgynous gender role may be more desirable because of the expressive nature of close relationships. However, a masculine or androgynous gender role may be more desirable in academic and work settings because of their demands for action and assertiveness.One study found that masculine and androgynous individuals had higher expectations for being able to control the outcomes of their academic efforts than feminine or undifferentiated individuals
Traits
To say that a culture or relationship is androgynous is to say that it lacks rigid gender roles and that the people involved display characteristics or partake in activities traditionally associated with the other gender. The term androgynous is often used to refer to a person whose look or build make determining their gender difficult but is generally not used as a synonym for actual intersexuality, transgender or two-spirit people. Occasionally, people who do not actually define themselves as androgynes adapt their physical appearance to look androgynous. This outward androgyny has been used as a fashion statement, and some of the milder forms (women wearing men's trousers/men wearing skirts, for example) are not perceived as transgendered behavior.
Lesbians who do not define themselves as butch or femme may identify with various other labels including androgynous or andro for short. A few other examples include lipstick lesbian, tomboy, and 'tom suay' which is Thai for 'beautiful butch'. Some lesbians reject gender performativity labels altogether and resent their imposition by others. Note that androgynous and butch are often considered equivalent definitions, though less so in the butch/femme scene.
The recently coined word genderqueer is often used to refer to androgynes, but the terms genderqueer and androgyne (or androgynous) are neither equivalent nor interchangeable. Genderqueer is not specific to androgynes, does not denote gender identity, and may refer to any person, cisgender or transgender, whose behavior falls outside conventional gender norms. Furthermore, genderqueer, by virtue of its linkage with queer culture, carries sociopolitical connotations that androgyne does not carry. For these reasons, some androgynes may find the label genderqueer inaccurate, inapplicable, or offensive.
An androgyne may be attracted to people of any sex or gender, though many identify as pansexual or asexual. Terms such as bisexual, heterosexual, and homosexual have less meaning for androgynes who do not identify as men or women to begin with. Infrequently the words gynephilia and androphilia are used, which refer to the gender of the person someone is attracted to, and do not imply any particular gender on the part of the person who is feeling the attraction.
Alternatives
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In agenderism the division of people into women and men, in the psychical sense, is erroneous and artificial.[5] It negates the biological sex (or lack thereof) as a carrier of specific features and tendencies of personality, and as a yardstick to determine human inside "I" (Ego).[6] In the category of transgenderism (literally, being "beyond gender identity") a person like agender can be included in a sense which rejects functioning under of any psycho-cultural gender.[7]
Contemporary trends
The rise of androgyny in popular culture has also been on the increase in the 21st century and beyond,[8] with an increasing rise in both fashion industries,[9] as well as pop culture for acceptance and even popularity of the "androgynous" look, with several trends set by current pop stars like Bill Kaulitz, being hailed as creative trendsetters.The rise of the metrosexual in the 2000s has also been described as a related phenomena associated with this trend, and traditional gender stereotypes have been challenged as well as reset in recent years dating back to the 1960s and the hippie movement and flower power. Artists in film like Leonardo DiCaprio sported the "skinny" look in the 1990s- a departure from traditional masculinity which resulted in a fad known as "Leo Mania",[10] and this came long after musical superstars like David Bowie, Boy George, Grace Jones, Prince, Marilyn Manson (appearing as an androgynous substance-addicted alien called Omēga in his album Mechanical Animals) and Annie Lennox as well as Michael Jackson challenged the norms in the 1970s and had elaborate cross gender wardrobes by the 1980s. The astronomical rise in popularity of "pretty" boybands in the late 1980s and 1990s like New Kids on the Block, Take That, the Backstreet Boys and 'N Sync "redefined masculinity"[11] and the trends flowed into other performance entertainment circles that included increasingly, sports stars in England's FA Premier League like David Beckham[12] or the Liverpool F.C Spice Boys[13] in the 1990s. These entertainers were known to have started trends of becoming increasingly conscious of their fashion and looks, and inadvertently raised trends as celebrities in the limelight that males were now increasingly interested in traditional female interests like clothing, fashion accessories, hairstyles, manicures, spa treatments and so on, which have seen the societal redefinition of traditional gender fashion norms, due to the popularity of these artistes with many people in the world today. These trends have arguably then gone on to reshape fashion, and clothing houses like Top Man, and designer labels have then seen an increase in sales in relevant "androgynous" merchandise.[14][15]
While the 1990s developed and fashion developed an affinity for unisex clothes and the rise of designers who favoured that look like Helmut Lang, Giorgio Armani and Pierre Cardin, the trends in fashion only hit the public mainstream in the 2000s, which saw men sporting longer hair, hairdyes, hair highlights, wearing jewellery, make up, visual kei, designer stubble, or the like, all of which been a significant mainstream trend of the 21st century, both in the western world, and in Asia.[16] Japanese and Korean cultures have been featuring the androgynous look as an ideal in society, as depicted in both K-pop, J-pop[17] and in Anime and Manga,[18] as well as the fashion industry[19] However, in 2010, reports state that the androgynous look in Europe and the West may be a trend on the decline
via (@wikipedia)
Andrej Pejic
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| with david chiang |
Sunday, March 13, 2011
LOVE
LOVE
LOVE
LOVE
LOVE
LOVE
LOVE
Actually what is LOVE ?
Do you really know what Love is ?
Do you believe in Love ?
Do you have Love ?
Actually here i will talk about Love in not general ways, here just love in my perspective, here just love base on Love with opposite sex which is Man or Woman.
This is Love in my perspective so here it goes
"Love is something that you feel when you want the person you love, to be happy, someone you want to grow old together, someone that make you feel safe around him/her, the place where you feel comfortable, someone that would share tears, laughter, happiness, sadness, sickness and everything even every little thing. Love is not physical or just about romance true love is about how we accept the way she/he was and DONT REALLY CARE about stuff that happen in the past and only care about how to make the future together"and this one i read it in twitter quote and i forget again hoho so sorry :p
"Love, we think about it, sing about it,dream about it and love sleeping worrying about it. When we dont know we have it we search for it, when we discover it we dont know how to do with it. When we have it we fears losing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain but we dont know which it will be from one moment to the next. It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without."
I CAN
This is the quote that i made on my tweet, "sukses itu butuh usaha bukan hanya keberuntungan" in english "if you want to success you have to gives it big effort instead depend on luck" hmm maybe like that hahha im not really good making quote base on indonesian, so i will talk about it. the word that inspired me for making this quote is because i watched kick buttowski, he said "i dont need luck, im just gonna try" how cool is that ? if you dont know kick buttowski he is a risk taker and super cool you can watch him on disney channel. Ok enough about kick, lets get back to where we are, hmm oke first of all i trust about luck, but luck just come to those who fortunately always in the shadow of fortune goddess and me ? im just an ordinary girl who has to give big effort to every goal i made, i dont think im a lucky girl, but its okay im cool with it, because maybe its ALLAH's way to show me that, maybe im not lucky enough but you can definitely reach your goal by try and use big effort. I think if we show the world that the world thought you cant make it but actually we can make it and give big effort the result is more proud than we actually not giving any effort in anything and than voalaaaaa you made it. I didnt say that i didnt trust luck, actually i believe in miracle, i believe in fairytale BUT we have to face this world with your head held up and say WE CAN!! there is nothing you cant do, you can do anything if you believe you will reach your dream!! For me i just keep study harder to get better score and graduate soon :) wish me luck
and for my junior in 13 senior high school keep your spirit up, study harder,
YOU ALL DEFINITELY GONNA PASS THE FINAL EXAM
GO GO GO !!!!!
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